Intimacy should be saved for devotees. One is not to be intimate with others. Reference: “Asat-sanga tyaga,——ei vaisnava-acara, ‘stri-sangi’——eka asadhu, ‘krsnabhakta’ ara,” or, a Vaisnava should always avoid the association of ordinary people. Common people are very much materially attached, especially to women. Vaisnavas should also avoid the company of those who are not devotees of Lord Krsna. (Caitanya Caritamrta Madhya 22.87).