What are intimacies? They should be saved for devotees. This refers to the third point in the fourth verse of Rupa Goswami’s “Nectar of Instruction:” dadati pratigrhnati, guhyam akhyati prcchati, bhunkte bhojayate caiva, sad-vidham priti-laksanam. “Offering gifts in charity, accepting charitable gifts, revealing one’s mind in confidence, inquiring confidentially, accepting prasada and offering prasada are the six symptoms of love shared by one devotee and another.”