The fourth verse of the Upadesamrita informs us – guyam akyati prccati – – devotees should reveal their hearts to one another. A common problem facing some is wearing the heart on the sleeve, i.e. being open and intimate with anyone and everyone. Krsnadas Kaviraja Goswami warns: asat- sanga-tyaga,-ei vaisnva-acara ‘stri -sangi’-eka asadhu, ‘krsnbhakta’ ara (CC, Madhya, 22.87).